ACTIVELY DYING

I can guide you in meeting death in a sacred, conscious & heart expanding way - along with traversing the practical and logistical.

Let the comfort of companionship, deep presence & witnessing hold you.

Some of the ways I can support you…

Emotional & Compassionate Support

  • A compassionate presence to listen without judgment or the need to fix or change your experience

  • Space to explore your fears, hopes, questions, grief, anger, or whatever emotions arise

  • Gentle practices to help you find moments of calm, grounding, and comfort

Planning & Advocacy

  • Support clarifying what matters most to you and how you want to live the time you have

  • Guidance creating Advance Directives and communicating your healthcare wishes

  • Information about hospice, palliative care, and VSED, so you can make informed decisions that align with your values

  • Advocacy and support preparing for conversations with your loved ones and healthcare team

  • Assistance organizing important documents, plans, and practical details

  • Help identifying and connecting you with resources that support your care and well-being

Relationships & Communication

  • Support navigating complex family dynamics and meaningful conversations

  • Gentle guidance in expressing love, gratitude, forgiveness, or goodbye—if and when it feels right to you

Meaning, Legacy & Spiritual Care

  • Opportunities to reflect on your life, your story, and what has brought you meaning

  • Opportunities to reflect on life's accomplishments, and unfinished business

  • Legacy projects, such as letters, recordings, memory books, or keepsakes for the people you love

  • Spiritual or existential support that honors your beliefs, values, and traditions

The Dying Process

  • Guidance in understanding what to expect as illness progresses and the body changes

  • Support creating meaningful rituals, celebrations, or moments of connection

  • Bedside companionship during your final days and hours, if desired

  • Helping create an environment that reflects your wishes and brings you comfort

  • Guidance for your loved ones about what to expect during the dying process

  • Holding space for your end-of-life journey with dignity, compassion, presence and respect for your choices

it would be my honor to guide you in this journey

NOTE: In-person appointment’s will be invoiced after our initial meeting at an hourly rate of $111